Disagree with Respect
With Malice Toward None
The Founders believed that talking about our differences and engaging them constructively would be key to the success of the American Republic. We can find guidance from every major faith tradition that teaches we are blessed when, in spite of our differences, we treat each other with grace, dignity and respect.
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With Malice Towards None: Human Dignity in a Time of Political Violence. past event
December 11, 2025, at 7:00 PM (ET)
Two prominent Americans with differing political and religious beliefs came together for a discussion on what needs to be done to disagree better and mitigate the danger of political violence in America. Tim Shriver, a liberal who is the President of the Special Olympics and founder of UNITE, and Tom Griffith, a conservative who is a retired DC Circuit Federal Judge and previously served as chief lawyer for the US Senate General, and was Counsel of Brigham Young University, engaged in a dialogue about the spiritual and moral values we need to combat toxic political polarization. The discussion was moderated by Dr. David McAlister-Wilson, President of Wesley Theological Seminary.
Forum: Confronting Political Violence. past event
December 9, 2025, at 7:00 PM (ET)
Moderated by news anchor Savannah Guthrie, Utah Governor Spencer Cox and Pennsylvania Governor Josh Shapiro had an important conversation on the rising threat of political violence and what it means for the future of American democracy. In this moment of deep division, these two leaders from opposite political parties reflected on the dangers of extremism, the responsibilities of leadership in moments of crisis, and the work of building civic life rooted in dignity, safety, and hope. Cathedral Dean Randy Hollerith also moderated a panel of experts on democracy, faith and society, which included Heather Gerken, of the Ford Foundation, Dr. Yuval Levin, of the American Enterprise Institute, and Melody Barnes, of the Karsh Institute of Democracy at the University of Virginia.
Utah Interfaith Fireside Chat. In Celebration of 2025 Inauguration of Gov. Cox. past event
January 5, 2025
On the eve of his second inauguration, Utah Gov. Spencer Cox convened a group of interfaith leaders, recently elected officials, and former federal Judge Thomas Griffith to share their thoughts around the spiritual foundation of good governance and discuss the benefits of disagreeing better and engaging our differences respectfully.
Repairing the Breach in a Time of Toxic Political Polarization. past event
December 4, 2024 at 4:30 PM (MT)
Join Governor Jared Polis as he hosts “Repairing the Breach in a Time of Toxic Political Polarization” at Temple Emanuel on Tuesday, December 3rd, at 4:30 PM (MT). Discover how we can forge new understandings across political differences and respect the dignity of others. Learn from leaders who engage in differences productively.
Disagree Better Summit past event
Aug 14, 2024 at 4PM CT
Join us at the “Disagree Better Summit” hosted by the Oklahoma City National Memorial & Museum, where leaders and thinkers from across the nation will gather to explore the art of respectful disagreement. This transformative event will feature inspiring keynote speakers, interactive workshops, and panel discussions aimed at fostering civil discourse in an increasingly polarized world. Learn practical strategies to engage in meaningful conversations, bridge divides, and build a more empathetic society.
With Malice Toward None past event
In our polarized and often poisonous politics, it can be challenging to even talk to someone who has different beliefs. Our relationships are strained, loving our neighbor feels impossible and we’ve lost a sense of empathy for each other. Together with Wesley Theological Seminary and the Wheatley Institute at Brigham Young University, the Cathedral will explore how to repair the breaches in our civic life. You’re invited to join us in-person or online for this special forum.
Republican Gov. Spencer Cox (Utah) and Democratic Gov. Wes Moore (Maryland) will dig into Gov. Cox’s initiative to “Disagree Better,” followed by a conversation of leaders, including ABC’s Donna Brazile, attorney Rachel Brand, legal scholar Ruth Okediji, and activist Tim Shriver, who are trying to model a new kind of politics. Columnist Peter Wehner will join Joshua DuBois, Director of Faith-Based and Neighborhood Partnerships for the Obama Administration, to uncover how to aim higher and do better.
Resources to Disagree Better
What can you do to improve your own ability to disagree better?
- CommonSense American
- Braver Angel Workshops
- The Dignity Index and Dignity Index Exercises for individuals
- Polarization Detox Challenge – from Starts With Us
- One America – Faith Over Division
What can you do to engage others?
- Golden Rule 2020
- Disagree Better and the National Governors Association Disagree Better Tools
- Working with groups you’re a member of (i.e. churches/communities of worship, community and civic groups)
- Share information online (social media, maybe create your own ‘disagree better” video with another person across difference)
What can you do to share the message with others?
Create your own short “Disagree Better” video. Tell others why it’s important to you that we “disagree better”?
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